Relates shame to perfectionism, integrity, creativity, inferiority, anger, blame, guilt and steps toward releasing, reducing, refusing, and healing. (Available in MP3, CD and Cassette formats)

Handout for the From Shame to Glory seminar

Passive/assertive/aggressive relating, assessing assertiveness, self-disclosure, passive aggressiveness, saying "no", "I" statements, authentic responsibilities, examples of assertions, shut downs, giving feedback, gaining understanding. (Available in MP3, CD and Cassette formats)

Handout for the Passivity: The Art of Playing Dead seminar

How shame prompts development of the false self, patterns of the false self (its solutions) and God's solutions. (Available in MP3, CD and Cassette formats)

Handout for the Shame versus Worth seminar

An allegory illustrating self-protecting patterns that become barriers to experiencing God's love and grace. (Available in MP3, CD and Cassette formats)

Handout for the Barriers to God's Love seminar

From Neil Clark Warren's book; explains ten principles for choosing a mate; seven flaws in mate selection; how to determine compatibility. (Available in MP3, CD and Cassette formats)

Handout for the Finding the Love of Your Life seminar

Describes passive aggressiveness, abuse, assessment of hostility, fair fighting, and asserting with "I" statements. (Available in MP3, CD and Cassette formats)

Handout for the Conflict Resolution seminar

Be empowered to manage work, family, and spiritual life by effective management of boundaries. (Available in DVD and VHS formats)

Bound monograph for the The Door Metaphor seminar

How to unleash creativity and dare to develop talents, interests; based on the Parable of the Ten Talents. (Available in MP3, CD and Cassette formats)

Handout for the Developing Your Gifts seminar

Assessment of blaming tendency, punishment Vs discipline, "I" statements, giving feedback, toxic and healthy beliefs; Isaiah 53: 4-12 personalized. (Available in MP3, CD and Cassette formats)

Handout for the The Blame Game seminar

Assessment of fear of rejection, childhood rejection, motivations for approval seeking, reducing fear of rejection. (Available in MP3, CD and Cassette formats)

Handout for the The Approval Addict seminar

Assessment of fear of failure, perfectionism Vs excellence, Godly and ungodly motivations, reducing the fear of failure. (Available in MP3, CD and Cassette formats)

Handout for the The Performance Trap seminar

Levels of honesty, roots of dishonesty, listening, saying "no", assess own anger, passivity/assertiveness/aggressiveness, self-disclosure, gender differences in relating, levels of communication, "I" statements, recognizing shut downs, giving feedback (positive and negative), fair fighting. (Available in MP3, CD and Cassette formats)

Handout for the Authentic Relating seminar

Mental health professional training seminar, Dr. Doug Weiss' treatment paradigm.(Available in MP3, CD and Cassette formats)

Handout for the Sexual Addiction seminar

Relates childhood wounds to development of a false self; offers 13 examples of idols created to cope with those wounds, resulting in experiences of emptiness and shame. (Available in MP3, CD and Cassette formats)

Handout for the Hurt Trail to Idolatry seminar

Addresses engaged couples' parents; applies to parents of any adult child about letting go and transitioning into strong, loving adult/adult relationships. (Available in MP3, CD and Cassette formats)

Handout for the Letting Go seminar

Describes passivity - non-relational, body damaging, ungodly; offers alternative ways to relate. (Available in MP3 and CD formats)

Handout for the What's So Aggressive About Passive? seminar

Addresses tendency to confuse earthly parents’ love with God’s love creating insufficient and weak experience of God’s love. (Available in MP3 and CD formats)

Handout for the Earthly father / Heavenly Father seminar

Includes resources, describes cycle of abuse, warning signs, guidelines for helpers of victims or abusers, best used with movie "Shattered Dreams" Good for groups. (Available in MP3 and CD formats)

Handout for the Broken People Broken Dreams - A Christian Response To Domestic Violence seminar

The Door Metaphor illustrated with "Authentic Responsibilities", guilt trips. (Available in MP3 and CD formats)

Handout for the Boundaries: Why Do I Need Them? How Do I Do Them? seminar

Presented at MOPS, includes goals for secure attachment, support and challenge and role play of mother and 5-year-old. (Available in MP3, CD and Cassette formats)

Handout for the Emotion-Coaching Your Child seminar